Start a conversation
A first message is not a commitment
You do not need to know everything before you write.
You do not need to be certain whether this is right for you. You do not need to decide how far a session could go. You do not need to have experience in front of a camera.
A first message is simply a beginning.
You can tell me what drew you to the images, what you are curious about, and also what makes you hesitate.
What you can write about
You may write if you are interested in:
Fine Art Portraits
A quiet beginning with face, hands, clothing, light and presence.
Fabric & Atmosphere
Softer images with clothing, fabric, swimwear, lingerie, natural surroundings or interior light.
Form & Light
Non-explicit, artistic studies of line, shadow, silhouette and body shape.
Model collaborations
Paid studies, selected TFP work or a possible future project.
Private commissions
Personal fine-art portraits, private image series or selected print work.
You can also write simply because something stayed with you and you are not sure what to do with that yet.
If you are unsure
That is completely fine.
Many first messages begin with uncertainty.
You can say:
“I am curious, but not sure if I would be brave enough.”
“I like the images, but I have no experience.”
“I would like to know more about how this works.”
“I am interested in portraits only for now.”
“I have questions about privacy and image use.”
These are good beginnings.
What happens next
After your message, I will usually reply with a few calm questions.
Not to test you. Not to push you. Simply to understand what you are curious about, what would feel safe, and whether the visual language could be a good fit.
If it feels right, we can continue with a short written exchange, a video call or a relaxed conversation in a public place.
If it does not feel right, we simply do not continue.
What to include in your message
You can keep it simple.
It helps if you include:
your name
where you are based
what made you curious
whether you have experience in front of a camera
what kind of images you feel drawn to
what you are unsure about
whether you are interested in #FAP, #FAB, #FAN, or not sure yet
If you are writing as a potential model, one or two simple recent photos can be helpful. They do not need to be professional. A natural portrait or simple phone photo is enough.
About privacy
Your message is treated with discretion.
You do not need to share anything you do not feel comfortable sharing. You can ask questions first. You can stay vague at the beginning. You can also say clearly what is not for you.
There is no pressure to continue after a first message.